Step 1 — Choose a report type
Dating Red Flags
Patterns of emotional abuse, manipulation, or dangerous behavior in dating contexts.
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Sexual Abuse / Assault
Sexual abuse or assault that was never prosecuted. Her word is enough.
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Is He Safe Around Your Kids?
Report predatory behavior around children. For moms dating someone new, or survivors whose abuser was never caught.
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Workplace Predatory Behavior
Sexual harassment, assault, or predatory patterns in professional settings.
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Digital Exploitation
Report someone who consumes, shares, or normalizes sexual assault content, exploitation videos, or non-consensual imagery.
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She mattered. Before exists so other families might be warned before it’s too late.
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Dating red flag reports are open to women who have completed the Before relationship assessment with a qualifying score. This helps ensure reports reflect real patterns of concern — not first-date frustrations.

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Before enforces a zero-tolerance policy on false reports. Violators will face a monetary fine and legal action pursued to the highest maximum allowed by law. False reporting is a disservice to real victims and survivors.

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